But what if you’re not 20-something or even 30-something? What if you’re in your 40s and have young kids? What do you do then?
Most of our friends who have got married in the last few years have either a) eloped and done ?????? it abroad alone cheap nba jerseys b) done it in the UK with a couple of witnesses or c) had a small ceremony for family then a reception in a pub.
All very valid cheap jerseys free shipping options. But what makes a really great wedding when you’re that little bit older (and all your savings have gone into the mortgage?). Sunset Should it be childfree? Local so people don’t need childcare? Do people still want live music? A sit down dinner? Or do they just want a free bar and pasties at midnight?
We’ve put it off, mainly because with three kids it seems like a huge thing to organise, but also because it’s difficult to know exactly what to do. Should you still go hacks as big as you would when you were younger? Or are people just happy with a party in a pub?
I guess the question is – what sort of wedding would you want to go to in your 40s – and what would be complete Nokia letdown?